Barliman Butterbur
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Mrs. Maggott said:Ah, but my dear Lotho! That's the whole point! True believers never try to force ANYONE to believe! Why did the early Church grow as it did - and continue to grow even when being a Christian was literally a death sentence? Because Christians lived their lives in such a way - showing love, compassion, mercy, charity and manifesting the miracles and wonders of a life in a relationship with God - that others simply wanted to be a part of it.
Wahoo! Would that that were still true! If indeed true believers never try to force anyone to believe, then I can only conclude from your statement that suchlike as the Crusaders, Catholics, Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses, along with the more aggressive stripe of Christian fundamentalists — in other words, those who proselytize, and also those who run missions (ranging from friendly discussion and shelters for the homeless, and who run children's charities in exchange for coming to Jesus — to the extreme of ramming it down your throat a la the Inquisition) are not true Christians. Do you really mean that?
...we have grown up in a culture which has at least the foundations of Christian morals and so we cannot recognize the fact that in the non-Christian world, especially the ancient pagan world, nobody gave a fig for anyone that wasn't a direct family member.
I need some clarification about the above statement. By "we:" are you speaking of Western culture generally, British or American society, what? And as for pagans, if you mean Wiccans, I have never run across a nicer bunch!
There were no orphanages or hospitals before Christianity. Even the Jews who were constrained to certain standards of kindness by their religion were not obligated to care for those outside of their family and/or tribe and they certainly were not even involved with - much less caring about - Gentiles. The parable of the Good Samaritan which is so familiar to us was a revelation to the Jews of Jesus' time. Considering a Samaritan (who was worse than dirt) as a "neighbor" was revolutionary!
I think here you need to be very careful of your claims. Jewish culture, especially the orthodox variety, has always been highly active in charitable works and institutions, to say nothing of education. And if they were not particularly motivated to help out those who were trying to wipe them out over the centuries, well, I can understand that.
In the beginning Christianity was spread not by the sword (like Islam), but by the words and the deeds of Christians. No one was "forced" to do anything.
That may be, but there were times in the past when Christianity was at least as aggressive as Islam (as mentioned before: the Inquisition; the Crusades). Today's proselytizing methods are admittedly more subtle and pleasant.
... No one can force anyone to believe. Under certain circumstances, one can be forced to exhibit outward signs of belief or unbelief (Christians under the Communist yoke), but that never constitutes belief which is something that the individual must consciously choose him or herself. An unwilling "believer" is no believer at all.
Tell that to those who were willing to torture and burn people at the stake trying to get them to say otherwise. "God save us from the things done in His name." But I don't want to fan flames. The point I want to make is this:
There are many Christians who, by their unswerving belief that "I Possess the Only Divine Truth and That Sets Me Above Just About Everyone Else" become arrogant and smugly superior, and that leads to thinking of everyone else as inferior, which further leads to intolerance, disrespect, which evolves to hatred and violence. The perfect example of such arrogance is that bumper sticker that says: "We're not perfect, just forgiven." Well where the hell does that leave the rest of us???!!!
I have known a great many wonderful Christians in my life who grace it. But these Christians are all too rare: they see Christianity as a religion that includes respect for the other person's way of life — and religion — no matter what it is, and see all things — including other ways of living — as manifestations of God's will. These Christians don't go to church as much as some others do, don't engage in formal rituals particularly, and don't pray as often — but their actions are loving, humane and respectful. And they are from all the varieties of Christianity. That makes them the kind of Christian that — assuming God's existence for the moment — She is proud of! And, funny thing: One need not be a Christian or member of any religion, or even a believer in God to be that good a person.
As for cats: I have a dog and love her, but cats!! When you have a relationship with a dog, it is master to underling; with a cat, it's equality at its best! A dog has a master; a cat has staff!![]()
We're both on the same side on this one! I am a cat person 100% (and unfortunately I am so allergic to them that I can't own one), and cannot stand barking, fawning, vicious, yapping/yipping stupid dogs! (I think all city dogs ought to have their fangs and vocal cords surgically removed.)
I live in an apartment with a balcony facing the sidewalk. And every day, here come the "dog people," trained by their dogs to follow them, each connected to their dog by a leash. Some dogs have their people better trained than others. The better trained come after their dogs with poop bags and clean up after them while the dogs bark loudly at each other, threatening to destroy each other (by the tone of the snarling and yipping) from accross the street late at night when people are trying to sleep. And if they aren't doing that, they socialize by sniffing each other's butts. Dogs — you can have 'em! (I feel so much better now!
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